When busy rescuing others or looking for others to rescue us, we miss the opportunity to renew ourselves.
Read MoreRescue embodies resilience only when the rescuer takes action the rescued can’t do for themselves (and wants).
Read MoreSix ideas and eight suggestions to improve a community’s ability to be proactive, responsive and response-ABLE as the scales of emergencies grow.
Read MoreI had an “allergic reaction” this summer to some language people around me are using to invite climate action: “be a first responder.” And so, I sit and write as a means to scratch the itch. What I found: As the scale of emergency grows, the ability of community to be proactive, responsive and response-ABLE becomes imperative.
Read More6 questions to ask at any time in your career, in Beth’s address delivered to the Master of City Planning graduates at the University of Manitoba, June 2021.
Read MoreLet’s release the binary ways we define city planning practice and grow our relationship skills (for the official and unofficial planners out there)
Read MoreNine practices to see, acknowledge and respond to our uneasy world.
Read MoreAs Mother’s Day approaches, I want to be more aware of how my behaviour erodes the growth of younger people in my life, especially when I am feeling challenged, hurt, or left behind.
Read MoreI put this question to Alberta's big city mayors Don Iveson and Naheed Nenshi, last week: What do you now know about your city that you didn’t know before you were mayor?
Read MoreProtection feeds my fear of other humans. Being neighbourly feeds my desire to connect with other humans
Read MoreIn my quest to figure out how planners and everyone else in the city can work better together, I’ve learned the magic of finding the minimal critical structure that enables new possibilities.
Read MoreImproving our cities requires us to be in a better relationship with ourselves: our intentions, actions, and the consequences of our actions.
Read MoreHow a speaking engagement shifted from “city building for women” to “city making and women.”
Read MoreShould you cast your vote based on who your city government needs to be, or who you want them to be?
Read MoreMutual agency fosters sovereignty in self and others and enables a generosity that seeds our regenerative future.
Read MoreChoose when to be oblivious, a spectator or an active part of efforts to improve. (Note: You don’t have to be everything at once.)
Read MoreMost meetings involve getting to the meeting, having the meeting and then leaving. We pay little attention to how we arrive or how we leave; we zip in and out. This business as usual practice minimizes our attention to the topic and people at the meetings we attend and what we can accomplish.
Read MoreWhat I did not say to her: when you exercise your sovereignty he is not going to like it. He will find the new you disturbing and destructive to his sense of self and he will do everything he can to claw you back into that place that is unhealthy for you–-even while telling you he loves you and supports you.
Read MoreThe energetic pattern of a gathering, both in how we design them ahead of time, or the dynamics during the gathering, need our constant attention. One of the ways I keep an eye on things is to ask: are we aiming to fix or improve?
Read MoreHere’s what I experience: when I use economic goods with a fixation that feeds my cravings and compulsions, I create the conditions for my own wasting away. I experience a pull away from self; I distract myself from myself.
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