It feels good to fight and argue, but when there’s no pressure to convince others or be convinced, we listen in ways that allow us to improve our communities.
Read MoreBeth Sanders and Jason Syvixay investigate how their locational, gender, sexual orientation, age and racial identities shape their experience of cities, their work as city planners and some implications for the planning profession. (Note: you don’t have to be a city planner to enjoy this conversation!)
Read MoreCity making, the weaving of city building and city caring, only happens when we have a social habitat in which we choose to weave these perspectives together.
Read MoreAn impromptu check-in invited awe in self, others and a beautiful place.
Read MoreIn my quest to figure out how planners and everyone else in the city can work better together, I’ve learned the magic of finding the minimal critical structure that enables new possibilities.
Read MoreThink about an activation like a guided meditation. You can listen to them in order or in response to your intuition--which one catches your eye?
Read MoreRadical honesty with my ski patrol colleagues makes me feel less scared. And more capable, too.
Read MoreThere are two kinds of inconceivable: 1) the one I tell myself isn’t possible and 2) the one I can’t imagine.
Read MoreBeth has landed in perimenopause, asking herself the question she asks others everywhere she goes: How do I make my way through this transition with care and compassion? The answer is in thinking not of The Change but of changing. Change as a verb.
Read MoreWhat on earth are intersectionality and GBA+? And what do they have to do with city making? Beth Sanders and Soni Dasmohapatra explore intersectionality and Gender-Based Analysis Plus (GBA+) in their work as city makers; they land on this understanding: GBA+ is a means to be in a conversation about improvement.
Read MoreHow do you design a public meeting when you believe that everyone has something to say, not just the vocal few?
Read MoreWhen we avoid sharing opportunities to make meaning of our experiences and make choices from the meaning we've made, we avoid the challenges and brilliance of community. And the choice, in every moment, rests with each of us. Choosing transition means choosing to participate in our changing.
Read MoreWe want change to happen without changing ourselves, without having to do anything differently. Yet, choosing transition means choosing to participate in our changing.
Read MoreWhen we avoid sharing opportunities to make meaning of our experiences and make choices from the meaning we’ve made, we avoid the challenges and brilliance of community.
Read MoreAn emotional upset and a ski trip helped me unearth two limiting beliefs about relationship skills.
Read MoreAssuming that the expertise in the room is in one or a few people disables and minimizes the resilience of a community. In this episode: 4 symptoms of conversation bypassing and 5 antidotes.
Read MoreWhether online or in-person, how we gather fosters connection between people only when we design in opportunities for people to make contact with each other. When we don’t, we engage in connection bypassing.
Read MoreAgreements about how we’ll talk and relate to each other are a commitment to be responsible for the quality of our relationships.
Read MoreIn my quest to figure out how planners and everyone else in the city can work better together, I’ve learned the magic of finding the minimal critical structure that enables new possibilities.
Read MoreCommunity has a vital role to play when emergencies arise: to enable transition from what was to what could be.
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